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Designs by Vivian Bales
Posted on Wednesday, May 20, 2009 by YukonViv

Tears are not bad. Tears don’t hurt. They are a part of you, a part of me, a part of everything. Some people fear their tears, holding them in so tight it hurts. It doesn’t have to be that way.
You have permission to cry.
This piece is very symbolic to me and to the new owner of it (that’s not my wall it’s hanging on!). Not only is it significant in our daily job lives (I won’t say what we do here because it may traumatize some viewers) but for my friend, it’s a big part of her home/family life. The words of wisdom were spoken by a toddler. Who else would be able to give permission, in it’s simplest terms. Is mommy sad? Cry then. And off to play. They are now a motto that has given this family so much strength and safety over the years. It’s ok to cry.
I stitched it using Crescent Colours Purple Pansy on a beige (”bone”) evenweave.

I used an assortment of batiks in a rich purple.
Incorporating the soul of the “Dr Suess” trees, I created a wave flowing seam across the top and side. And quilted the piece in the same wavy line.
Why go straight when you can wander.
And lastly, I finished it off with some beadwork.

Happy stitching! Vivian